This taboo sex act could save your relationship, expert insists: ‘Catalyst for conversations’

What the cuck?

Sleeping around might seem like the ultimate relationship-killer, but it could actually have the opposite effect, according to one unconventional sexpert.

British woman Adreena Winters claims that watching your soulmate have sex with another person could conversely be the secret to keeping a marriage thriving.

“It may not spring to mind when you think about ways to keep a relationship afloat, but cuckolding can be invaluable,” Winters, who authored the book “So You Want To Be A Cuckold?” told Jam Press. “Depending on why the relationship is in trouble, it can absolutely save it.”

The skinfluencer, who frequently shares sex tips, for her over 57,000 Instagram followers, said she was in a cuckolding relationship herself and it did wonders for her love life.

Now, the Bristol resident wants to usher this taboo behavior into the mainstream.

How does this so-called consensual cheating bolster the marital bond? By forcing “couples to talk openly about their fantasies and what they desire,” per Winters.

“For many couples, the lifestyle acts as a catalyst for conversations that might otherwise remain buried about fantasies, unmet needs, or unspoken curiosities,” the sex savant declared. “One of the biggest challenges in long-term relationships is that we stop being curious about each other.”

She said that this counterintuitive-seeming kink helps reintroduce this curiosity in a “safe, structured way,” allowing couples to “re-engage emotionally and erotically” and helping them break their romantic plateau.

Winters said that this simulated extra-marital affair can help couples “confront” simmering feelings of jealousy, as well as insecurities and ego issues, which can fester if not addressed.

“When you face these issues together, you build a much stronger foundation,” declared the Brit, who claims that couples of any age, or who’ve been dating for any length of time, can benefit from cuckolding.

“For example, older couples who have been together for a long time may not have done much exploring, and this allows them to have experiences with other people,” she said. “Whereas younger couples are much more open-minded and aware of fetishes and fantasies, so it can be on the table from the very start of the relationship.”

Somewhat controversially, the sexpert believes that the unorthodox practice will provide sexual healing for women whose partners aren’t “well endowed.”

“For me, and many other women, penetration is important,” she said. “Maybe a woman is with someone who they love and is a good partner, but doesn’t satisfy them sexually as well as someone else might be able to.”

While farming out hank-panky might sound like an excuse for getting sex on the side, Winters claims that “cuckold[ing] isn’t about comparison – it’s about devotion.”

“Women can still have that loving relationship and closeness with their partner, but get that really good satisfaction elsewhere by introducing a third party into the bedroom,” she said. “Your role isn’t to compete, it’s to witness and support her pleasure. That shift from ego to admiration is where the true transformation happens.”

In fact, she dismissed accusations that cuckolding is a glorified form of philandering, claiming that this play philandering can foster a “nurturing and quite a loving dynamic between the couple.”

“It’s not uncommon for couples to say they feel more connected afterwards,” the sexpert said. “Men often describe the experience of watching their partner confident, glowing, and sexually fulfilled as deeply bonding. And women tell me they’ve never felt more adored or accepted.”

She added, “People might assume that weak men who are being taken advantage of are into it, but it actually takes a lot of strength from the man to give you the space to explore.”

It’s about “empowerment,” not “replacement,” per Winters.

That being said, it’s important to broach the subject in a sensitive manner.

“You can’t just throw the idea out and expect your partner to be on board,” she said. “Start by opening the conversation gently – don’t frame it as a problem to solve, but as a desire to deepen connection.”

If the partner agrees, it’s nonetheless important to ease into the practice gradually by initially exploring cuckolding as a fantasy.

Should both parties agree to take the next step, they should set clear boundaries and emotional check-ins, including the manner in which the partner will be included, whether as a participant, spectator, or simply knowing the encounter transpired.

Cuckolding devotees have espoused the virtues of this stigmatized tradition.

“It’s kind of like letting your friend test drive your car,” explained one husband and proud cuckold named Logan. “He gets to see how well it rides. He’s got to give it back, but it creates a sense of pride. You get a little taste of what my life is like.”

Go figure: It’s also fun for the cuckolder themself.

One professional wife-sitter claimed that he’s addicted to having sex with married women — especially those of friends and business partners — as it makes him feel powerful.